I can remember trying to obtain my first apartment. It was the best feeling of my life, because finally I would be off on my own building my own life as an adult. I had a full time job that I had kept for a year after graduating from high school. My parents were so excited by the whole process that I was thrilled to have their support.
When I went to apply for my apartment, I remember the leasing agent telling me that I would need proof of income by bringing in check stubs from the job. The problems with this is that we did not get check stubs. My throat sank inside my stomach because I knew I was not going to get the apartment.
I turned and walked away from the lasing agent with disappointment getting ready to walk out the door, when the leasing agent informs me that if I can get a statement from my boss using the company’s letterheads, I would get the apartment. Guess what? I got the apartment!
I had to take my grandmother shopping once a month for all of her necessities. She had a stroke over 10 years ago and she walked pretty slow and my grandfather did not have the patience to take her, so I volunteered. My grandfather was always at work and when he wasn’t at work he did auto repairs in his garage for extra cash.
We would first go to get her prescriptions and incontinence pads from her local pharmacy and medical supply store. From there we might stop and pay a utility bill or two and then off to the grocery store. After the grocery store we would go order some fast food to take home. Finally back to grandma’s house to unload all of the groceries and then eat some food. Fun day!
There are a lot of fun parts of planning a wedding, but most couples do not enjoy working out all of the details of their wedding budget. However, budgeting is a necessary part of planning. Although the process of setting a budget can be tedious, a budget is actually freeing. It allows you to know exactly how much you have to spend. Once you have determined the amount, you and your partner can work together to determine how you want to spend your funds.
No matter what society says, you should spend the bulk of your money on the areas that are important to you. If you have always dreamed of having wedding fireworks, you can choose a cheaper wedding dress to free up some funds. If food is important to you, add shrimp and lobster to the wedding menu while settling for artificial flowers instead of pricey live flowers.